Interview etiquette and expectations appear to be changing.

It’s not uncommon for candidates to show up dressed in Ugg boots and casual clothes. They’re coming in, coffee in hand, without offering any for anyone else. They’re declining to take business cards. And many are skipping the traditional follow up, the thank you note.

The trends echo a recent online discussion about how seemingly small choices, such as bringing an iced coffee to an interview, send a signal that it’s just a “stop on your list of errands for the day,” as a Florida recruiter, Caitlin Wehniainen, said in a now widely circulated TikTok video.

Standards of professionalism and the unspoken rules of interviewing may be shifting. Which raises the question of how much interview expectations have evolved and what employers consider appropriate today.